
I now write to you from Cairo, Egypt.
Myself and some other students arrived here at about 4:00 on New Year’s Morning, and we quickly found slumber as we had not had much over the previous days of travel. The last few days we have been able to explore some of the sites around Cairo, which has proved to be quite interesting, beings as this is my first time in the Middle East.
Yesterday we went as a school to go visit the site of the Pyramids. I always imagined that the Pyramids would be far removed from anything even remotely modern, but they truly sit directly next to the sprawling metropolis that is Cairo. It was an amazing site to see structures that have been standing for literally thousands of years. It is hard for me to comprehend.






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Our friend here tells us about the different value systems of the Middle Eastern Culture. He says that where our western society values love, honesty (justice and fairplay), and cleanliness, the Middle Eastern culture for the most part values hospitality, relationships, and dignity (honor/shame). It would seem at first glance that this is no problem, it is just a difference in cultures. However, I have found that the differences in these values can prove to be quite a frustration, especially in regards to the justice aspect.
Growing up, I was always taught to be polite, waiting for my turn, and giving priority to others before myself. It makes sense to me to wait in line when I am needing to get food, go to see pyramids, or drive in traffic. Here though, I have quickly found that it doesn’t work to be a polite little American boy, at least in regards to waiting for my turn. It is hard for me; justice seems to make the most sense. I so often love how God is described as a God of justice.
But I often forget that this same God of justice is also The God of mercy. He has given me life through his son Jesus, when my actions, tainted with sin, condemned me to death. Through this I see that I must learn to have mercy for people, even when it does not seem to go along with my natural sentiments of justice. Can I afford to be ok when someone gets their food before me, even when I’ve been waiting for 15 minutes longer than they have? I think so.
And I will also have to learn the art of finding my way to the front of a crowd of people in order to get to the cashier.
As I learn to adjust to the people and the different things they value, please know that your prayers are a huge help. On my own strength things can be difficult, and it’s easy to get frustrated; but I believe and am trusting in God’s promises to come to our assistance where our abilities run out.
4 comments:
Tim,
You are very cool. Thanks for writing. It's cool to hear what you're doing. I imagine you are learning tons.
-p
When I was in Afghanistan, I felt so rude pushing through everyone to get on the plane, pick up luggage, etc. but thats just normal there. It was so weird. The middle eastern culture is so different, but they are the warmest and most giving people I have ever met. May God continue to bless your travels.
-carrie dyk
hey tim,
i want you to know i wait on the edge of my seat for your next blog -this is such an amazing record you're keeping. justice doesn't seem high in the asian culture's mindset either -here in korea i've often waited in line only to be shoved aside, pushed past, or ignored. i've had the same frustrations...but like you said, God is also a God of mercy, and that's what it comes down to. i'm praying for you tim. peace.
amanda
Here I am! Man your trip looks amazing through little pictures on the web, I can't imagine how cool it really is.
Keep rockin' ya hear?
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